A Bad Past Few Days

So if anyone reads my myspace updates that have been very angry lately this whole story is why. I love my sis actully my sis in law but she means the same to me as a sis. And she has been going throught a lot right now. Stuff that no one should ever have to go through. And more than anything i just want her to be ok and want to be there for her.....but she all of a sudden gets this "boyfriend" which what ever cool that is her life not mine. So he starts hanging out at the house.....this is kacys moms house where she lives and where we spend a lot of time becasue when i work Brie is there. And next thing we know he is like living there.....it hasnt even been two weeks.....again what ever not my place to say anything.......but strike one she asks me to bring her some food after work one night and of course i do because id get her anything she asked but before i even got there i knew it was for him because its not something she would have asked me to get......Strike two she JUST got a new car, one that her parents did a lot for her to have so she could get to dr. appts and such, well guess what the car is never there for her because the bf takes it EVERY day....which again is not my place to even care but then she has to ask to use my car to get to really important dr. appts! I mean he could at least just say hey can you drop me off at work so you can get where you need to go..... And Strike three the thing that crossed the line of no return......Kacy his brother and I are all at the house watching tv in a seperate room. Im one of those moms that always like to know what her kid is doing and if she is causing a problem i will go and get her so others dont ahve to deal with it......so i had her in the room with us for a bit but she loves to go see grandma in the living room so she went out ther and was crying. Well i guess grandma wasnt out there and so she was prob even more sad about that and here is the good part........Boyfriend who has known all of us for a week takes Brie back to the room where we all are and says to us "if she is going to cry then you need to keep her in here because caden is sleeping" Now to most of you you might just let this go but all three of us just looked at him and were like Who the fuck are you to tell us or our daughter what to do. I mean any one else katie, grandma, grandpa, any one it would have been fine but some fag who moved in after a day has the right to tell us and my kid what to do in our house...ok its not MY house but this is somewhere i take my daughter that she thinks as home, she feels safe there and should never have to feel like some stranger is telling her what to do.....now it just keeps getting worse we are all mad. And its not sisters fault realy its not and i feel bad that when she is going through a lot already that she might feel like her family isnt there for her, but that is the thing we all love her so much and want to be there for her but feel like she is trading us for some dude who is bumming off all of us. I have been mad for about 3 days, so mad that every time i go there i start to shake with adrenalin, and kacy my god i know he just wants to fuck him up but trying not to so there arnt more problems. and then this morning the anger just kinda went away and im just sad. like to the point where its hard not to just cry about it all. Any way im sure no one even cares about this but it felt better to get it out..........